• Day 460 – Scripting your life

    Farmers shed in the fields along side a gravel roadMy former partner in business had a motto: « what is not written does not exist ». He was, and still is, right (or shall I play a pun, he’s write). If you do not write it, you cannot share it, you cannot keep it, you tend to forget it. This stands true for everything in life, including your life. What is planning your day? Writing the script of the day. What is writing your goals for the year or your resolutions? Writing the script for the day. What is being part of the 5AM Robin Sharma’s club? Scripting the first hour of your day. In other words, all those activities are about scripting your day.

    When we talk script, we tend to think movies. Each movie has a script. A script contains, of course, the words the actors will need to say, as well as indication on how to play the scene. You will hear some directors stick to the script has it was Holy Scriptures, while others are loosely referring to it, letting actors play more « freely ». In all cases, a script is open to interpretation and therefore change. It’s not because it’s written that it should be played like it’s written, however, it if were not written, it probably could not be interpreted and changed. It’s because it exists it can be played differently.

    This goes with our own life. It’s really, really important to have a very precise idea of what you want in your life, emotionally, psychologically, financially, socially, etc. Thinking precedes scripting, scripting allows clarity, clarity provides direction, direction drives action. You may and will deviate from your script, because you will have to weather a storm or answer an unexpected opportunity. The script will be your own North Pole. There’s no good wind for a ship that does not have a harbor. Do not delay the writing of your script, do it!

  • Day 459 – Flow

    Water in motionThere are days that feels lighter than others. There’s levity in the air. Yesterday was one of those. When I started my morning jogging, my legs felt light and my pace was above average although I did not have the impression to make a conscious effort to run faster. My rule of thumb in those days is not to find the whys and the hows, but to leverage this levity into all the actions I am doing during the day.

    It’s a great day to revisit your monthly, quarterly and yearly goals. Where are you on those? What are the ones that need to be put back on track? It’s a great day to tick all that is on your To-Do. Generally, everything flows easily during those light day. Actually, this state is described in psychology as the flow. I like this sentence that describes the flow: « the hallmark of flow is a feeling of spontaneous joy, even rapture, while performing a task. »

    Above the joy, there’s the efficiency. You go fast, you go deep, but above all you go easy. So when you feel this flow, work with it, go along and do all that you have to do. Not only you will have done much more that an normal day, but you will have it done better and faster, and a surge of dopamine will flood your body! It feels good!

  • Day 458 – Be Brief, Be Bright, Be Gone!

    Day 458Almost two years ago, I had written an article in the Le Matinal entitled the same way, posted on this blog, and translated here. I was then giving the 5 Ss of being brief, bright and gone. But what stroke me those last couple of days is how verbose people can be on topics they do not have a single ounce on influence on, nor understand the real influence it has on their lives. Not that chitchatting is not a pleasant activity once in a while. It’s sometimes relaxing to discuss futile topics. However, I tend to focus my life on what and how I can make a difference in the world, close or far.

    For instance, read the whole noise around the elections in France or about the crash of the Germanwings flight. Of course those are important or dramatic topics that may impact millions of people. Now what influence do I (or you, individually) have on them? Probably none. Will they have an influence on me (or you)? Can I do something about this influence? If you do not live in a specific part of France, it has no real influence on you. On the flight security, it will have a possible positive influence if you are flying once in a while, but it may not really lead to a difference in the way to travel or make a decision on travel.

    However, you cannot open a newspaper, listen to a radio broadcast without having news on one of those topics. So if you want to comment on things you do not influence or which do not have any influence direct or indirect on my or you, be brief, be bright and be gone. We all have 24 hours every day and spending any extra minute on topics that we cannot influence is just a list topic. It’s not being uninterested in the world, it’s just focusing on what you can really deliver!

  • Day 457 – How many books do you read a year?

    Day 457Since the invention of writing, books have always fascinated and have contained all sorts of truths. Nowadays, with the advent of electronic books, the market of books has exploded and millions of new books are published every year. With this explosion, I feel I do not have time to read all the great books that are published every month. However, my Kindle is full of ebooks I have not read yet and my library full of paper books I have not read yet, so I am sure I have always a book to read. The one I am currently reading is changing my perception on how the brain works and how marketers are getting results. But I will post later on this one, because it requires at least one post.

    So the question I asked is insightful on how you progress, you move your thinking forward, you learn new things to help you refine your craft. If I were to give a good number to really make progress tangible, I would give 52. One a week! And this should be the baseline. We some training on speed reading, you can probably go up to 100, fiction and non-fiction. Fiction is great for expanding your mind and non-fiction for expanding your art.

    You may say that you do not have time to read books. Well you may have time to listen to audio books instead of the news during your commuting time for instance. You may say that you do not like reading or you do not know where to start: here’s a good pointer to start reading. It’s low cost and can be read on your tablet with the Kindle app. You may say that you do not know what to read: here is the list of 100 best fiction books by Wikipedia, and here the list of 100 best nonfiction books my The Modern Library (you will find top 100 novels here as well). So get a Kindle or go to the nearest library or book store, and start reading!

  • Day 456 – Are you doing things because they’re easy or because they’re hard?

    Day 456As we were closing the first quarter of the calendar year 2015 yesterday, a colleague of mine came up with the fact that selling is not always easy, but we need to give our best to close deals. This made me think of the speech that JFK gave when he announced that the USA has engaged into going to the moon, and doing « these things not because they are easy but because they are hard ». Anybody can do easy things, a few can do hard things. Are you willing to go one step further or settle when things get tough?

    There is a difference between being happy doing something hard and suffering doing something hard. We do something hard to grow, to expand our limits, to past our fears. The current world is teaching people to avoid risks, to insure everything including our lives, to avoid effort. The current world is creating the gap between people who get satisfied by doing easy things and people who get satisfied by doing hard things. And the current world, paranoid as it is, make people who are doing easy things angry against people who are doing hard things because they succeed.

    Success is not about doing things because they’re easy, but because they’re hard. If you’re not doing hard things, things that challenge you, things that make you uncomfortable, things that force you to face your fears and win over them, then you are not pushing hard enough. Don’t get mad against others because they succeed more or faster, learn from them, look for what makes their success and work hard to enjoy the same success. Enough complaining and whining, act and win!

  • Day 455 – The Beauty And The Beast

    Day 455The elections that have just happened in France were in all newspaper across the world because the ruling party (the socialist) has lost and the extreme right one (the front national) has tremendously grown although not really winning. And of course, everyone comments on the victory of the right wing against the left wing, and on the defeat of the left wing against the right wing. Politics are governed by cycles, like economy or civilization. And people comment and need to find reasons and predicts future outcomes… but people forget!

    They forget that they made the same mistakes, took the same decisions, because they were impatient, because they are not taking the hard path to question the politics, to make them accountable to their promises. They listen to the media who happens to be as shortsighted as voters and to forget. Because media’s power is to tell stories, incredible stories, scary stories, emotional stories. There is beauty in the victory and a beast in the opponent!

    The Beast for both wings was Marine Le Pen and the Front National. They won 62 seats out of 3,802… 1.63%, although they got 22.23% of total votes. As a reminder, in 1986, while another socialist was leading the country, François Mitterrand, the Front National got 35 MPs out of 577… just above 6%. But people forget and when they are recalled history, they shrug their shoulders and tell you this was different back then. The Beauty for the right wing is to have now 66 « départements », winning 25 (totaling 65%). In 1988, under the presidency of François Mitterrand, the right wings had 68 « départements » (totaling 72%, because of a total back then of 95).

    If politicians were elected on the results they achieved, very few would be elected! If politicians were elected on their proven competencies, very few would be elected! There will always be beauties and beasts in politics. What voters should do is pay a visit to their candidates, ask questions, seek answers, cast their votes, hold their champions accountable and keep moving. Never ever forget and be brave!

  • Day 454 – Why would or could, when you can and will?

    Day 454Although I am not a native English speaker, I feel a major difference between would and could, and will and can. Of course, you will say that would is the past tense of will or that would expresses a polite request. However, the Oxford dictionary also gives those definitions: indicating the consequence of an imagined event or situation; expressing a desire or inclination; expressing a conjecture, opinion, or hope; and expressing a wish or regret. All those definitions express an opinion or describes a situation that may not exist. By the way, when Barack Obama was elected he said, yes we can, not we could.

    To me, using would or could is a way to say that there is a risk of failure, and if it does not happen, well, it does not happen, fail, done! Using will or can is a way to say that you will do whatever it takes to make it succeed. It may still fail, but you believe it will succeed. Words are a simple and powerful to express what we believe. We have only one life, and this should be a life of will and can, not a life of would and could. Have a look at where you are and where you want to be, then believe you can, and you will!

  • Day 453 – Sunday is YOUR day!

    J 453Sunday is the day of the Sun. The day for you. In some countries Sunday is the first day of the week. Fine, then your Saturday is my Sunday and this is the same. The main point of Sunday is to take time for you! Sometimes we feel we have very, very little time in the week due to our professional rhythm. Well Sunday should be actually named Funday! The day of the fun. The one day of the week that you can devote to do things selfishly for you and for you only. Take an hour to paint, to run, to visit a museum, to see a movie, to relax in the couch with a good book. This time is crucial to your balance. Make it uninterruptible and have fun!

  • Day 452 – what’s up doc?

    I did 365 days of daily post last year in French. Will do them in English this year. For those who want my post in French, use the Microsoft Translator dropdown on the right. It may not be perfect French, but you know, robots will get better over time and their French will improve dramatically. Compris ?

    As said in the previous post (in French, for you who speaks English, use the Microsoft Translator dropdown to translate the previous post in French J), I am back on posting daily, my thoughts of the day. Since I jumped over 86 days already, I am late, like Alice’s rabbit, and therefore I am full of ideas that I need to put on the virtual paper of my blog. So wazzup ? In random order:

    • Change the design of that blog (too … and too… so need to go back to simple, smart, sweet design). Will work on this.
    • Comment on my latest learnings from my job and the news
    • Deliver rants on the crisis… Crisis? What crisis? Well our European friends are in deep sh… Chinese have not yet realized they are and Americans seem out, but could be again. However, there are simple ways to get out for you and your beloved ones.
    • Write on my latest readings (the last book that I have not finished is just a mind-blowing eye opener of why people are so irrational, more on this soon).
    • Tell you why you should leave France now if you have not done so yet.
    • Explain why the world is just wonderful and why you should stop listening to all people who tell you the opposite.

    Voilà. This is it for the moment and for my first post of season 2 of the one-post-a-day, à la Seth Godin (he’s a master, I’m just a young Padawan).

    All the best, have a great week-end and see you tomorrow!

    Oh, before I leave… do comment on my posts. Just say a few words, even if it’s hello or yuck! Just a word will start a conversation.

    © keepcalm-o-matic.co.uk, 2015

  • Y’en a marre…. et voilà ça redémarre…

    Je courais ce matin, comme quasiment tous les matins, non pas parce que j’étais en retard, mais parce que je cours tous les matins, je jog, je fais mon footing, vous appelez ça comme voulez. Je le fais, un, parce que j’aime courir (ça a commencé il y a plus de vingt ans quand on a décidé, une bande de copains, de courir le marathon de Paris, depuis je n’ai jamais arrêté), et deux, parce que ça génère endorphine, dopamine et sérotonine et que donc ça fait du bien ! Je courais donc et je réfléchissais. C’est clair que quand on court, on a le temps de réfléchir, particulièrement quand on a la chance, comme moi, de courir dans la forêt. je réfléchissais donc et mes pensées s’emmêlaient… agréablement.

    En réfléchissant, je me disais que j’avais de la chance de pouvoir courir là de bon matin dans cette forêt, et que surtout, qu’il était temps de mettre de l’ordre dans mes affaires et de simplifier les tonnes de trucs que je fait au quotidien. Il s’en est donc suivi un certain nombre de décisions, prises là comme ça, en courant.

    La première concerne ce blog. Ben oui, je l’ai un peu délaissé, car je m’étais un peu lassé de mon billet quotidien. C’est que ça en fait du travail d’écrire un billet tous les jours. Et puis en regardant le désolant film des départementales, les élucubrations des uns et des autres sur la crise en Europe et le bras de fer Merkel-Tsypras, la folie meurtrière du co-pilote de Germanwings (dont la culpabilité n’est pas encore prouvée, même si tous les indices semblent converger), l’optimisme de mes interlocuteurs après mes deux semaines au Zimbabwe, en Namibie et au Botswana, la manière avec laquelle les parents et les enfants sont parfois considérés dans l’école de la république (histoire personnelle), j’ai décidé de m’y remettre. Non seulement à mon billet quotidien,  mais aussi à mes chroniques sur la crise, car franchement, franchement, qu’est-ce qu’on peut entendre comme monceau de bêtises ! Non que j’ai la science infuse et en sais plus que les autres, c’est certainement tout le contraire. Mais c’est que le bon sens est toujours là et que peu de monde au final l’applique, alors je vais m’y coller. Certes, j’ai raté 86 jours depuis le début de l’année, et je ne vais pas chercher à les rattraper, je continuerai à compter en partant du 1er janvier de l’année dernière avec un trou de 86 billets…

    La seconde concerne donc ma présence sur les réseaux sociaux et mon autre blog. Et bien j’arrête, et je reviens à mes fondamentaux. Comme quoi, le bon sens est de toujours écouter sa petite voix (salope) qui vous glissent des bananes sous les pieds pour voir si vous trébucher. Comme je n’ai pas encore trouvé comment faire bien plein de choses, je m’en vais faire bien moins de choses. Logique non ?

    Et puis la troisième… la troisième…. doit-il y avoir une troisième ? On dit un, deux, trois, pas un, deux… Pour le moment, cela sera un et deux. Voilà. je reprends ce blog et laisse tomber l’autre (je n’étais pas trop motivé pour l’autre de toutes les façons).

    Allez, à demain !